They tell you that marriage is about open doors and open communication. What they donāt say is that some things are better kept unsaid.
There are secrets which when revealed will only hurt rather than help your relationship. Here is a look into some things you should probably keep from your man;
1. What you think of his best friend
A manās best friend is an extension of who he is. If your think his best friend is hot, telling him will rub him the wrong way. If, on the flip side, you think that his best friend is a loser, unless it is negatively affecting your man, it is best not to say it.
2. About the guy that hit on you
I know, you are probably happy with yourself that another man hit on you but you held your ground. The truth however is that telling you man will not help your relationship.
3. That you cheated on your ex
If for whatever reason you cheated on your ex, your current doesnāt need to know. Telling him that you cheated even if you had a valid reason will just make him less likely to trust you.
4. The faked orgasms
If you have faked an orgasm, then you are obligated to forever hold your peace. If you didnāt tell him then, there is no use telling him now.
5. Details from your friendās bridal shower
Some things, like your sluttiest moments, are better left unsaid. What you did at that bridal shower three years before you met him, he doesnāt need to know about it.
6. That he isnāt your usual type
It happens. Sometimes you get with a man you wouldnāt normally date and the two of you hit it off like a bush fire. If this is how it happened between the two of you, he doesnāt need to know. Telling him now will just make him insecure, it wonāt help anybody.
7. Your bests
If he isnāt your best lover or your best relationship isnāt the one you have with him, he doesnāt need to know. Those are things that you should keep to yourself.
8. Your toy collection
If you are one of those women who like to use adult toys, keep it to yourself. Telling your man about your secret collection will just make him feel inadequate.
