8 Signs To Know That A Girl Wants To Date You. (Opinion)

Women are not always direct with what they want. Sometimes they seem to be saying something or passing a message, but still doing something else that is entirely different.

And in most cases, men do not realize the interest and end up taking too long to take the next step.

The confusion happens because the nuances of female flirting, incredibly subtle, usually go completely unnoticed.

Men tend to look for more direct signs of interest .

That is why I have selected some clues that will help you deal with this confusion.

The next time you ask yourself whether or not you have a chance with a woman, look for any of the following signs …

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1. Her voice is “more feminine”

One of the best ways to determine if a girl is giving you a break is to observe the tone she uses when talking to you.

When you’re in a class with the woman you like, listen to how she talks to her friends and the other guys in the group.

Girls don’t usually talk to their friends in a high-pitched tone. The most common is that the timbre is a little more serious and accelerated.

On the other hand…

If a girl talks to a guy she finds attractive, she unknowingly uses a more childish, sweeter tone .

It is an involuntary attempt by her to appear more feminine .

Does her voice get higher when she talks to you?

If so, you’ve already started well!

  1. She uses suggestive touches

Although touch is a common indicator of romantic interest, not all touches are of interest.

If the pat she gives you on the back is a little more firm and she says the words “awwwww” or “ok” in response to something you have done, she probably sees you as a friend .

She is not using touch to communicate a more serious interest.

On the other hand…

Touching your shoulders, arms or legs, they already say something quite different …

She can rest her hand on your arm while you are in an intimate conversation, or give you a playful push and laugh, if you provoke her.

So, the next time a woman touches you, notice what the context is… She’s probably giving you a “go ahead”!

  1. She maintains eye contact

Maintaining eye contact with a person is very intimate.

Still, these looks of interest pass by most men.

Going a step further, a recent study has shown that prolonged eye contact can even make two people fall in love .

In the study, participants of opposite sexes were asked to focus on each other’s eyes for two minutes.

After that time, many of the participants said they felt a significant increase in feelings of passion and love.

Not bad for a simple look!

Naturally, we have maintained eye contact for a longer time with people we care about.

Use that knowledge to your advantage.

If a girl looks at you, especially when you are not talking directly, she may know that there is attraction going on.

  1. When she smiles, the corners of her eyes twitch

According to a study there are 18 different types of smiles.

When a girl flirts, she demonstrates the incredibly sincere “smile of pleasure” .

How to recognize that smile?

When someone smiles sincerely, because he is feeling real joy, it causes a small muscle in the upper part of the face to contract.

This contraction causes wrinkles in the corners of the eyes, known as “crow’s feet”.

Usually, people do not consciously control this muscle. So, if he contracts, it indicates true happinessand not a false, forced smile …


If the girl you like smiles at you and these little wrinkles and cheeks appear visibly, it is almost certain that this is a real smile …

… Which means that she most likely is interested in you.

Girls smile more at boys who interest them. If she laughs at all your jokes , even if they are not so funny, one more point in your favor.

  1. It “mirrors” your body language

This is a phenomenon that happens without the woman realizing it.

People tend to copy the behavior of the subjects they are attracted to. It is a social tactic of evolution to “fit in” .

A simple way to know if she is flirting with you is to subtly change your position. Cross your legs or arms, scratch your belly, take a sip of your drink.

If she imitates your movements, you are unconsciously showing interest. If she doesn’t notice your cues, the attention may be elsewhere …

  1. She points her feet towards you

Another easy way to know if she is interested is to look in which direction the girl’s feet are pointing.

People point their feet at what they want or what they are focused on.

So, if her toes point to you , she is interested in continuing the conversation .

On the other hand, even if talking to you, her feet are pointed in the other direction, it is a sign that she is more interested in the environment than in you.

  1. She uses her hands to get her attention.

While you talk to the girl, watch what she is doing with her hands.

The woman’s hands say a lot about where your attention is.

Without realizing it, we all naturally use our hands to draw attention: waving, touching, clapping, defending ourselves.

If the woman is in the mood, she will use all her weapons to get her interest.

Does she play with her hairwhile you two talk, wrapping it around one finger?
Does she touch her mouth in any way, while she smiles and listens to you?
Does she use her hands to touch you ?

On the other hand…

Does she hide her hands by placing them on her hips, crossing her arms or stuffing them in her pockets? So she is definitely not trying to get your attention.
8. She doesn’t stop talking

Now, given the previous tips…

Make sure you don’t pay so much attention to facial cues and body language that you forget to notice her interest in the conversation.

When a woman is in the mood for a guy, she speaks more than “poor in the rain” . Even the most timid!

If the conversation between you flows quickly and effortlessly, this is a very strong signal that she likes you.

On the other hand:

If you are the one who talks the most and she doesn’t give a lot of answers, the woman may not be as interested.

When the woman is in the mood, she will endeavor to keep the conversation flowing with you.

IMPORTANT: she can even play with her hair and laugh at her jokes. However, if she looks at you and says “I have a boyfriend”, that does not mean “please continue to flirt with me, as I am playing with my hair” .
Beware of the “professional seductress”

Something that guys need to be careful about is that woman we call “professional seducer”.

This type of woman will demonstrate all the flirtatious signs listed above, but she will not be romantically interested in you.

She just likes to get attention from men or uses her “charm” to get an edge . Some use their power of seduction to enter parties without paying or to win drinks from the guys at the bar.

Many men confuse these signs and end up wasting time – or even money – with natural seducers.

How to know the difference?

Notice how she interacts with other men. Does she flirt with everyone in the room, going from one conversation to the next?

If so, be careful. Her interest is probably not true.

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Mc Ebisco

Welcome to Mc Ebisco, I am a blogger and a comedian in Nigeria, My aims and objectives are to share knowledge and varieties of news and information across the globe.

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