As a man, you need to learn to live a balance life; coordinating your wife in such a way you will be a good husband, a wonderful father and a successful professional. You can’t afford to fail in any of these areas. So, a balanced life is non-negotiable. You must not live a lopsided life like some men do. Many successful executive, actors, business tycoon, politicians, CEOs, etc failed in their homes because they don’t live a balanced lives.
Living a balanced life as a man
1. Set your priority right
Put your God first, family second then love your career. If you put your career first, you may destroy your relationship with God and your family which might later affect your career and possibly your life as a whole.
2. Make good use of your weekends and vacations
Most men prefer hanging out with their friends at weekends. This may be wrong sometimes. Weekends and vacation periods are time to rest and allow your family to enjoy your presence.
3. Go home after office hours
Avoid night clubs and parties. Rather go home after the closing hour to be with your family.
4. Play with your family
You can create time to play with your wife and children. Watch films with them, take them out just to be together, create good memory about you in your children.
5. Let there be solid family altar
Create time to fellowship with your children, pray with them and study the Bible, let there be a strong family altar.
6. Get involved in the life of your children
Help them with their home work, attend their parent teacher’s association (PTA) meetings, end of the year party in school. Never fail to visit your children who are in boarding schools on visiting days, be totally involved in the lives of these children, that is the only thing they will remember about you in the future.
7. Create time to be with your wife
Create time to be with your wife alone and away from your children. Time and and communication are the currencies of relationship. Avoid any transfer that will take you away from your family.
8. Never carry the office stress home
When you get home forget the office. Lighten up, brighten up; be a good husband and a great father to your family.
If you put the above points into consideration, your wife will never cheat on you and you will have a harmonious family.
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