It is usually advisable to always know the kind of plans your partner has towards you when you’re in a relationship. It won’t make any sense if you’re the only one taking the relationship seriously while your partner takes it as a causal one.
As a woman, you should know your limit most especially when you know the guy you’re dating is not ready or planning to marry you. It won’t make any sense if you do what you ain’t supposed to do all in the name of love.
Even if he plans to marry you, that still doesn’t mean you should pass your limit or do things you’re not supposed to do.
Dear women, if you’re not planning to marry a man, don’t do these 4 things if you don’t want to end up blaming yourself.
- Don’t ever ask him to take care of your needs.
Once you start asking a guy to take care of your needs, he will start seeing you as someone that wants to marry him. You might see it as a normal thing, but to a guy, it might mean something else. If you know you’re not planning to marry a man, don’t ever ask him to take care of your needs. It will be better you borrow money from him than asking him to take care of your needs.
- Don’t ever introduce him to your friends and family.
It won’t make any sense if your family and friends know a guy is with you and then you decide not to marry him anymore. If they get attached to him, you can even be convinced to marry him against your own will. If you know you’re not getting married to a guy, don’t ever do this no matter what. He might even think you’re taking the relationship to the next level, not knowing you’re not.
- Don’t ever tell him everything about you.
Some ladies have fall victim to this aspect. They have shared everything about them with a guy and it was later used against them. If you know you’re not planning to marry a man, don’t ever tell him deep things about you. Make sure things you tell him is normal and will in no way affect you.
- Don’t ever give him full access to your life.
If you allow a guy to have full access to your life and you’re not planning to marry him, you will have nothing to gain at the end of the day. Don’t ever let him know all your movement, weakness, and passwords. You should keep it a secret.
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