How to forget your EX or someone that hurting you now.
It pains when you love someone and she hurting your feeling, when you choose a wrong person, when loving a wrong person ending always not funny.
Being with someone who doesn’t understand you, appreciate everything you doing for the relationship and abusing you can be unbearable but some people always prefer to suffer than their happiness, i have seen people who said ” i can’t do without him, if leave can’t cope ” someone you claiming doesn’t love you but you claiming you in love at the point you can’t do without him, as i always said ” not about loving someone but love is about someone you loving you back ” How can you expect who doesn’t love you to start treating you well – forget what they’re telling you, if their attitude bad towards you that’s person you dating.
Feeling are created, no one start feeling like they can’t do without who they don’t know about – that feeling you claiming you can’t erase from your heart was created by you – so you can delete that feeling from your deep heart.
Someone you claiming you can’t do without him, Have you forgotten? He cheated on you, he treated you badly, he abuse you, he makes your life unbearable, he makes you feel like you not good enough for any man and treated you like you trash. Don’t forget those bad moments even if you love him so much.
If you want to forget who treating you badly, if you ready to move on with your life, if you 100% sure want to let go what hurting and making you unhappy – you have to make up your mind and stand on it, easy way to move on or letting go relationship by showing seriousness, how do you show seriousness – showing fully determination, without determination from your deep heart, you can’t be able to move on, remembered ” He takes your love – cares for granted, he mess up with everything about you, he never value you, he’s not proud of you, he’s a joker, he’s a deceiver, he’s a man after your body, he’s after your money and material things, he cheated on you, he treated you badly, he abuse you, he makes your life unbearable, he makes you feel like you not good enough for any man and treated you like you trash ”
Now if you really want to forget about someone, you have to recode those feeling you created into your deep heart, how can you recode by showing fully determination, stand on your decision.
Please I want you to understand something “you can’t change your lover, if your lover doesn’t want to change” so be careful when being patient and waiting for who doesn’t want to change to change. You can’t change him or her if he/she doesn’t want to change, only them can change themselves.
I didn’t said you should go and die in bad relationship, remember ” you can’t change your lover, if your lover doesn’t want to change” some relationship need letting go especially in dating. Not waiting and loving a fool who keep cheating to change whereby he or she doesn’t want to change.
Let me caution you, Sometimes some people can’t change that’s the fact unless they want to change. ( Marriage can’t even change them ) Don’t believe in marriage they will change, they won’t change. if you see that is attitude and character and behavior is getting worse every day, my sister, my brothers please move on with your life, because some people are like devils looking for who to destroy.
As i said before you created the feeling, you can delete the feeling if you make up your mind, with determination from your heart, you can forget any one feels you can’t do without him or her. Stop claiming you can’t do without someone, that’s not true – you can forget who treating you badly, if you stand up today and show your seriousness and determination, surely you will move on from what killing you secretly.
Finally always go where your presence is valued, and where your love is appreciated. You cannot build a life with someone who doesn’t want to make you a part of their day. The future is in your hand and God will open your eye and show you your heart desires soon. In dating let go if you can’t cope with someone mess – dating is dating, ” not about loving someone but love is about someone you loving you back ” that’s what believed – who doesn’t love you back, can’t treat you well.