Uche Elendu in a message specifically addressed to men, revealed why they shouldn’t hurry out of their marriage.
Insisting that all women are not materialistic, the Nollywood actress stated that what most women want is a man who is loyal, caring , loving and understanding. Uche Elendu further disclosed that a lot women make huge sacrifices just to protect their marriages or relationships and it hurts when they get the blame when it ends.
The mother of two advised men not to wait till another man harnesses the treasure they were too blind to see before they receive sense. She wrote;
Good women are scarce. When you get one, don’t mess with her or go out thinking you will find someone better. You Just may not be that lucky, Appreciate your woman, Not all women are materialistic, most of them just want a man who is loyal, caring , loving and understanding. Any other thing is a plus if you’re privileged to have it.
A lot of women make huge sacrifices just to protect their marriages or relationships, the tears, the battles both emotional, physical, spiritual battles they fight, the pain, financial input , betrayal and the disappointments… Yet, they dont give up easily… Till it dawns on them that they’ve actually been in a relationship with themselves. it hurts, and at the end of the day when it packs up, they blame it on the woman. Karma is a bitch and she’s a woman so she favours women. BE WARNED
Pls MEN, take time to appreciate that good woman in your life today. You dont have to do much, just reassure her of her position in your life and proove it to her, make sure you lit up her face with a smile, make her body feel your warmth and her ears hear your heart beat, you never value what you have till its gone, Don’t wait till another man harnesses the treasure you were too blind to see before you receive sense.
To all the women out there working hard to save their marriages and relationships, praying and wetting their pillows nightly , God is not asleep, you are not alone in this, you are a pillar that can not be shaken, stay strong, stay focused, do your best and leave the rest, live your life and protect your heart, don’t be in a hurry to come out of your marriage, it’s lonely out there and full of deceit, but if its a threat to your life, Run run run for your dear life, Cos with your life you can start a home, but in a casket your home is your END.
Uche Elendu got married to Prince Walter in 2012, she however moved to Lagos after their marriage ended in late 2015.