Keeping a successful and healthy relationship in this age and time is something that only few people can afford to say they manage to. It is so hard to find that almost perfect relationship these days. Many of the relationships you see out there are not what many people think it is.
I’ve tried to understand why and what is the cause of these failed relationships we have in our society today and what I found out is that, it is not even about how pretty or how beautiful or handsome you are, whether you have money or not, these aren’t factors that determine the success of any relationship. They play a part, but they are just minor factors.
I came to understand that one of the problems with so many relationships today is that God is not at the center of the relationship. This is not me being religious or anything, but with God at the center of any relationship, that relationship is bound to be successful. A God fearing gentleman and a God fearing lady will tick all the boxes that a successful relationship requires.
Look at it this way, a God fearing man and lady will; be honest, committed to themselves, abstain from premarital sex, build a future together in Faith, love each other whole heartedly and get past any obstacle that comes their way. Now tell me how this won’t be a successful relationship?
But because we want to do things the way people do things, that cycle of failure continues to unfold. This is why so many relationships are failures and so many people jump from one failed relationship to another failed relationship.
Earlier today, a very pretty lady took to social media to cry out her constant failing relationships. She said she’s tired because she’s been hurt too many times, going from one failed relationship to another failed relationship.
Here’s what she posted on her twitter account:
“Been hurt too many times”
“it’s like I keep going from failed relationship to failed relationship.”
Just looking at how pretty she is, one would assume that a pretty face like that wouldn’t have relationship problems, but like I said earlier; It takes more than a pretty face to sustain a successful relationship.
What do you think about the point I mentioned? Do you agree or disagree?
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