In the journey of choosing a life partner, there are certain things a woman needs to put into consideration. My purpose of writing this article is to point out some of the things you need to watch out for in your man. This is to reduce the rate of divorce we have in our society today.
Marriage is not all about finding the perfect man, but finding right person. When you find the right person, be careful not to lose him.
Below are the qualities you need to watch out for in your man. If you find any of these qualities, don’t leave him for another.
- A man who is emotionally matured
We have often seen women slap men in movies, and the men not attempting to retaliate. Despite the fact that men are stronger than women, yet we see them holding their peace. The message is that the man is emotionally matured.
How well is he able to control his impulse when argument becomes tough between both of you? Is your man able to calm himself during stress, disappointment and pressure? If your man would rather not unleash his annoyance on you during this time, then he is the right one for you.
- A man who shares virtually everything with you.
Does he share everything with you without reservations? Most importantly, he looks into the future and share plans and values regarding all that brings happiness into the marriage. He would be careful not to totally take charge of defining how the future ends with you both, by ensuring his plan corresponds with those you have in mind too. When you see a man who’s on the same lane with you, please don’t leave him. His kind is rare.
- A man who apologizes to you each time he does something wrong.
Has he ever apologized to you when did something wrong? Is he full of himself?
It is easy to spot a man who’s full of himself from a distance. A man who would prefer being nicknamed “tough”, even at the expense of taking your feelings for granted. Study your man, and ensure he feels truly sorry whenever he did something wrong to you or to someone else. A man who would make a great husband, would do all it takes to bring back the smile he caused you to lose. When you meet that man who apologizes to you when he is wrong and not full of himself, please hold him tight. Don’t leave him for another.
- A man who motivates you
A happy life comes with the feeling of being appreciated. No one knows it all. In this regard, how is he able to appreciate the little you can do perfectly? A husband material will appreciate your good food, embrace you for being so organized, and encourage you from time to time. Ensure your man is capable of making you feel appreciated. You are most likely to live a happy life when your man is intentionally willing to demonstrate his respect to you, through his actions and words. His level of education does not matter here. If he is able to give indepth recommendations and advice which inturn, helps in making awesome decisions, you can always trust your instincts of leading you to a right choice of man.
- A man who has the ability to maintain a healthy conversations.
It is okay to disagree with each other once in a while, but how does he handle the scenario? What makes a marriage is the ability of each couple, especially the man, to know his way around conflicts. One who is going to make a great husband should be able to calm a heat conversation. If your man has this ability, don’t ever leave him. It will be difficult to have issues with a man who can maintain a healthy conversation.
- A man who does not pry into your privacy
In real sense, every man must respect your privacy. Digging beyond to know who that text messages and your last call is coming from, as well as trying to know the relationship between you and the sender would only give him a cause to lose trust. Your man has the right to ask you who you just called or who called you. However, if he makes a point of duty to always ask, this show that he lacks trust.
A man who has 100% trust for you does not pry into your privacy.
- A man who has changed a lot of things in your life.
The number of years you have been with your man does not matter, neither does it matter if your love game is below months. Ask yourself what has changed in your life, or what impact has being in a relationship with him generated. If he has been able to change your life in anyway, please stick with him. Such a man is not easy to come by.
- A man who does not restrict you to certain things
You are who you are. Therefore, there shouldn’t be any set rules binding you from doing certain things in the relationship. A man who threatens you with a breakup “if you don’t come spend the weekend” is not a husband material! This is the kind who will always have you caged in marriage with a selfish “do” and “don’t” rules. You are an adult who knows her left and right. Any man who believes in you and trust your judgement is a good man for you.
- A man who respects your family
A man who shows respect to your family irrespective of their social status is good man. When you notice that your man has so much respect for your family, don’t ever leave him. He will carry your family along when both of you are married.
- A man who can satisfy you in bed.
Man’s ability to satisfy a woman in bed goes beyond intimacy alone. He should be able to do the things you derive pleasure from. If he is able to satisfy you in bed, you won’t have to get such happiness anywhere else. You don’t have to sleep with him to confirm this. Women have their own way of finding out without sleeping with a man.
- A who takes your relationship seriously.
If your man sees your relationship as if his whole life depends on it, you see him working towards the growth of the relationship, don’t ever leave him heart broken. Such men are not easy to come by.
Thank you very much for reading.
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