Ever heard of the saying: To live with a man, you should let him be a man; and to live with a black man, you should let him have his side dish? Not many women get flattered by that statement. But the important thing is that whether you allow them or not, a majority of men will have a mpango wa kando.
Women, I suggest you read Psalms 29:11: “Lord, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change…” It seems like all men have been afflicted by the side chick plague, that even prayers have little effect. My advice is that we accept this bitter-sweet reality, because as things stand, we’re going to deal with the mpango wa kando for a long time to come.
Of interest is that the mpango wa kando is no longer the naive, trying-to-survive campus girl. Not anymore. Even the suave, well-educated and holding-a-powerful-corporate-position boss lady in a Merc wouldn’t mind sliding into the mpango wa kando chair. I think it is time we stopped slut-shaming the other woman and calling her a home wrecker or husband snatcher. Men are like babies. Like children who need to be pampered all the time, they also want to have their egos massaged. The modern wife is a busy woman, who has to juggle career and family, and has little time allocation for stroking a grown man’s ego. Enter the mpango wa kando. She knows her position in the triangle. She’s there to afford the man some distraction from work and family. They can have all the fun in the world with the man, but should not expect any commitment. Basically, she is a toy that he takes out of the box when he needs her.
By the way, women should not feel aggrieved or offended that their husbands have a mpango wa kando. The side chick is not a woman the man sees every day, or every week for that matter. That’s the unwritten law. When you get moody and start nagging the hell out of your man, the poor guy needs to take refuge with someone to balance the emotional see-saw at home. The truth of the matter is that it is near impossible to be a wife, mother, bedroom freak, manager and get a grip of your career all at once. You need help. In business, it is called outsourcing.
Hubby needs someone to laugh at his dry jokes, someone who will make him special meals once in a while and remind him that he is not getting all wrinkly and old. He needs a fresh, well-cleaned lass to accompany him to his drinking escapades with the boys. Of course wifey can’t do that, what with all the responsibilities she has to deal with.
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