In the past, especially here in my country Nigeria, we believed that it’s unfair, unlawful and against Islamic beliefs for Muslim Women to marry a Christian men.
But nowadays, it seems our eyes has opened, we now see a Muslim family allowing their daughters to marry a Christian men, now we see marriages as an institution where religious beliefs should not be it basis.
Though this involve many adjustments and compromises that the couple need to make for the marriage to work, but it worth it, choosing a life partner is an important decision to make in life.
Marriage is an institution created by God based upon love, peace of mind, form basis to ensure the continuity of the marital relationship.
For this reason, it’s meant to be enjoyed, peaceful without regrets. To be honest with you, many married people are hoping or wish to be single again so as to be able to make the right choice all over again.
If you choose right, you will enjoy it forever, but if you make mistake, it’s can affect every other area of your life. This subject is so important.
So why are Muslim women now prefer Christian men over Muslim men when it comes to marriage?
In my own humble opinion, these are the reasons, kindly read with open mind, to get the real facts
- Fear Of Polygamous Home – As we all know, as a Muslim man, you can marry as many wives as you want promised you have enough cash to catter for their needs.
But Christians hardly encourage or celebrate a man marrying more than a wife. Though, some Christian married more than one wife but it’s not common.
For this reason, our Muslim ladies nowadays prefer Christian men, because they are not ready to share their man with any woman and are not ready to fight any polygamous battles.
- Christian Men Knows How To Treat Women Well – it’s a dream of every women to marry a husband as a friend, a lover, a husband that takes out, talks about love and lots more.
But if you see the way some Muslim men treats their wives, especially those ones in my area, you will feel sorry for the lady.
They are fond of this Africa mentality, they sees theirs elves as one demi- god that wants their women to worship them.
- When It Come To Romance, Christian Men Are The Best – Marriage is beyond sleeping together, bearing children, dropping food money. There some times in a relationship that woman wants their husbands to make them feel special as a woman.
So, when it comes to this, Muslim women prefer Christians men. They see them as better half, better soul mate and a companion.
Thanks for reading