Married teacher who had sex with boy, 15, demanded sex ‘6 times a day’, says ex
Kandice Barber’s ex ended their relationship when the ‘incredibly frisky’ offender’s sexual demands became ‘too excessive’ – and he found sexual images she had sent to other men
The former flame of 35-year-old Kandice Barber said he even felt he had no choice but to walk away from the relationship as he found the “incredibly frisky” offender’s sexual demands “too excessive”.
Today Barber was convicted of having sex with a 15-year-old pupil to whom she sent topless pictures of herself on Snapchat.
Her ex told MailOnline how his two-year relationship with the now mum-of-three saw them romp up to six times a day, sometimes in unusual places outside, in the car, in the garden or even in woods.
Supply teacher Barber’s high sex drive dominated the relationship, her ex claims, and he was not surprised by some of the sordid details heard in court – but was shocked she had been so “stupid” as to get involved with someone underage.
She was found guilty of two sex offence charges related to sending topless Snapchat pictures to a 15-year-old student.
She denied the charges but was found guilty.
She had initially told court she was ‘too short’ for a sex position claimed by the 15-year-old boy.
The ex, who was not named, told the website: “She liked doing it outside, sometimes in the car, the garden or in woods.
“We’d be driving somewhere, and she’d say, ‘pull over, I’m feeling Hot.’ It just got too much for me.
“Everyone has got their personal needs and that sort of stuff got her excited but by the end of it I couldn’t be bothered, I’d just had enough. It was too excessive.”
Barber and her ex met on dating website Plenty of Fish.
He detailed how she would perform pole dances for him in her garage, dressed in hot pants and a bra.
He even claimed her friends would join to put on a show for her lover.
Barber, of Wendover, Buckinghamshire, was found guilty of causing or inciting a child to engage in sexual activity and not guilty of two further counts of the same offences.
She was tried for a second time over allegations she had sex with a pupil in a field while she was working as a school cover supervisor.
She had previously been convicted in September of sending the boy topless pictures of herself on Snapchat between September and October 2018, but was acquitted at the time of causing or inciting a child to engage in sexual activity while in a position of trust.
In a police interview, the boy told how Barber had sent him multiple illicit images of herself and a video of her masturbating while surrounded by intimacy gadgets. He claimed encounters included the married mum performing MouthAction in a wooded area.
Barber has claimed she was “too short” to have had doggy-style sex with a schoolboy, as she doesn’t even reach his shoulders. She was also accused of straddling the boy in her 4×4 car and then performing a sex act on him while he lay in a wooded area.
Hearing the details of what Barber was accused of doing, the ex said it reminded him of their own relationship and sexual behaviour he knew she was into – but he was shocked that she went about it with a minor, expressing his disbelief that she could be so foolish.