Good evening Editor,
I have been following you for so long now and I am really happy how your page has enlightened, entertained, educated me and so many others.
Please, hide my ID. I need advice from MORE Tribers on how to deal with my husband.
My husband is very disrespectful and a very rude MAN, even to his mother and siblings, he is too abusive. He has been this way since he was growing up according to his family. I never courted him for long(2months) before marriage so I never saw this part of him, God knows I will never settle for such behaviour from a man.
I delayed having another baby after 5yrs due to his pressure for having a male child and how he tells me if he has more Money he will marry more 3 wives to have more male children, I looked at him and get angry in my soul.
Fast forward to 5 years later, I had another daughter despite all my efforts and medical advises I had on ovulation and timing of sex on my PEAK DAYS.
He abused and called my child birth pains a wasted efforts just because i had my 3rd female child when he was expecting a male? He did same thing when i had my second child(girl) but I had to swallow it for peace to reign and he repeated the same treatment immediately i got back from the hospital with my third baby. He angrily told me immediately I told him I had delivered that he is disappointed in her and after the long wait all i had to offer was another bullshit, a trash and another milk industry. That I am USELESS TO HIM.
That my intention is to kill his linage and to bring shame to him and make him a laughing stock amongst his friends.
THE HURTFUL WORDS WAS SOMUCH THAT I BROKE DOWN EMOTIONALLY AND PHYSICALLY DESPITE BATTLING WITH AFTER LABOUR PAINS. He displayed much resentment towards the new baby that my two eldest daughters noticed and said…..mummy, daddy doesn’t like our new baby at all.
After one week of his abuses i became so ill despite that I was still nursing my baby and tending to my two daughters with no help. I left with my kids and my 1 week old baby since January, he is begging me to return that he is sorry he overreacted but I am no longer interested in the marriage anymore, i have already told my family that I want to resolve the Union bc I have had enough.
PS:- He is blaming me for having female kids due to my love for DRINKING TEA, HE SAID MILK MAKES MY BODY TOO ACIDIC AND NOT FAVOURABLE FOR MALE CONCEPTION THAT I NEED TO MAKE MY BODY ALKALINE. I HAVE TOLD HIM LETS GO FOR SEMEN ANALYSIS FEW YEARS AGO, HE REFUSED.
THIS MAN IS AN ADDICT WHEN IT COMES TO ALCOHOL AND MARIJUANA, HIS FAMILY ARE AWARE HE IS TOO. MOST TIMES AFTER MUCH DRINKING HE BECOMES A DIFFERENT PERSON, HE BECOMES TOO VIOLENT AND LOST SELF CONTROL. I HAVE COMPLAINED AND NO SIGN THAT HE IS GOING TO CHANGE HIS HABIT. I RUN A BUSINESS ONLINE, I’M ALSO A SEAMSTRESS, I SUPPORT HIM FINANCIALLY AS A WIFE, I PAY MY BILLS AND TAKE CARE OF NEEDS AND STILL BORROW HIM FROM MY SAVINGS, I HAVE NEVER DEMANDED MONEY FROM HIM BC I UNDERSTAND HE DOESN’T HAVE MUCH.
Since I left, he has not sent even a dime to me for baby diaper or children upkeeps, I do it all by myself.
I WANT HIM TO PROVIDE FOR HIS KIDS WHILE I STAY SEPARATED FROM HIM…..I HAVE NO MORE ROOM IN MY HEART FOR HIM FOR A 3RD CHANCE, NO AFFECTION!!! I JUST WANT TO MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE BECAUSE HE CANNOT CHANGE FROM WHO HE IS AND I AM NOT READY TO TRADE MY HAPPINESS FOR HIM ANYMORE.
I got a call from my friend in my flat on how he brings different ladies home late nights. I told him to go ahead and marry more wives like he desire because I am no more interested in him or whatever he has to offer me. I have forgiving him but I have peace of mind staying away from him.
THANK YOU VERY MUCH.
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